Gatherings

Our gatherings are substance-free and open to any man seeking to release unnecessary burdens, while deepening their connection with self and others. Attendees have experienced a renewed sense of strength, support, clarity and direction.

To maximize the accessibility of our services our gatherings have various pricing options & our monthly circles are free

We encourage everyone to bring their whole self with
a readiness to dive deep into the layers of their make-up.

Our Services & Pricing

We devote ourselves to being of service to our fellow men by providing tangible tools & techniques for self-actualization, while keeping our services affordable.

We therefore offer three pricing tiers & a donation-based option.
Scholarships are available for our coaching services as well.

No one will be refused for lack of funds!

In-person
Council Circles

Join one of our monthly circles lead by one of our
core leaders

Free

last Thursday/month 6:30-8:30pm

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Familiarize yourself with our approach

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Partake in a check-in council round

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Get answers to your questions

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Realize shared struggles and the strength of collective processing

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Meet the community in person

Day-Gathering
Meet the Community

Day spent outdoors with men ready to engage, support & transform

$0-300

per gathering pp.

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Join a day in Nature

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Meet the community & be supported

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Activities centered on healing & empowerment

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Gain applicable tools

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Connect with Nature & yourself in quietude

Overnight
Campout Initiation

Spend 2 days & 1 night in wild Nature away from obligations & distractions to dive into your inner work

$0-500

per gathering pp.

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Learn to trust yourself, hold strong boundaries, and serve others with purpose

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Dive into your (sub)conscious mind

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Be guided through transformative activities

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Apply tools promoting your growth

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Stay connected & build supportive bonds

UPCOMING EVENTS

Our next day gathering will be organized at end of March 2026. The beginning of Spring is a potent time to celebrate & plant the seeds we wish to see sprout in the vital season. Feel free to reach out with any inquiries or questions in the mean time.


MONTHLY COUNCIL CIRCLES

Our circles are free of charge & hosted on the
last Thursday of each month from 7:15 to 9:30pm.
Note that locations might change according to the season.

We are committing ourselves to hold recurrent council circle for new & returning men to connect in the spirit of mutual support. This potent space for self-awareness, development & support is cultivated through:
– confidentiality
– tolerance & respect (all truths & beliefs are welcomed)
– attunement (no unsolicitated advice)
– share as much as you feel comfortable to
– receive optional perspective, guiding questions or advice


PAST EVENTS

Reclaim your Wildness: Overnight campout
at Red Rock State Park (Cantil, CA)

In the raw expanse of the Mojave Desert, we gather to reclaim our Wildness. As technology grows louder, our instincts get dull and our edges soften. This invitation is a call to return to the pulse of life that can only be felt in the flesh, in the earth, and in untamed nature.
We come together to empower one another, to gain clarity, and to leave with a renewed sense of direction.

This weekend is designed to help you:
• See what has held you back
• Express your emotions fully
and without judgment
• Clarify your needs & direction
• Be witnessed & supported

Some things you can expect:
• Qi-Gong, Yoga & Breathwork
• Coaching Practices
• Self-Assessment Tools
• Shadow Work
• Psycho-somatic Exercises
• Nature Connection
• Fire Gathering
• Good times, Fun & Laughter

Spots are limited.
As always, no-one will be refused for lack of funds. Contribute what you can, and bring your own gear, food, and water for the journey.

When: October 11th to 12th
Where: Abbott Dr, Cantil, CA 93519, United States, California

If you feel the call, reach out with any questions—and join us.


Overnight campout at Reyes Peak (Ojai)

This Father’s Day weekend, we gather to celebrate, connect, and heal. We will honor our fathers and forefathers who did the best they could with what they knew.

This is an experience designed to help you move from your head into your heart, connect deeply with other supportive men, feel safe expressing what’s been locked within you.
The goal is to empower each other and gain insight on how to move forward.

When: June 14th to June 15th

Where:
Reyes Peak Campgrd in the
Los Padres National Forest
near Ojai, California


Beyond the Noise:
Cultivating Clarity & Stepping into your Power

We’re back for a first Spring gathering to connect as a community, support each other, gain perspective & prepare ourselves for our upcoming June Overnight Gathering in Pine Mountain (Ojai).

We’ll complete a series of activities grounded in mind studies, body, breath & meditation techniques. You’ll gain insight on how to get a hand on (sub)conscious mental patterns that hinder personal growth and become clear on the next steps of your personal mission.

When: May 18th 11am to 3pm
Where: Griffith Park Los Angeles


Day Gathering on the Mesa

Date: Sunday, December 15 2024, 9am to 4:30pm

Location: Topanga Canyon, CA

Are you ready to connect with nature, clear your mind, and step boldly into your purpose? This is your invitation to join the Four Pillars Brotherhood—a conscious men’s gathering designed to support you in embodying your strength, sharpening your focus, and taking the next step on your path.

​We’ll meet on The Mesa in Topanga Canyon—where nature and commitment converge to align us with our purpose. This isn’t just a day outside; it’s a chance to forge deeper connections, tap into what truly drives you, and chart the next steps of your mission with clarity and courage. It’ll be a day of focus, brotherhood, and fun along the way.


Overnight Campout –
Initiation at Red Rock

Dates: Friday, October 18 2024, 5:00 PM to
Sunday, October 20, 2:00 PM

Location: Red Rock State Park, Kern County, CA

The purpose of this gathering is to connect with fellow men to recognize that we are not alone in our struggles, to share our stories, see our shadows that consciously or subconsciously hold us back, and have fun. 

You will be guided through a series of individual & group activities, including  Kundalini yoga, group discussions, self-development workshops, meditation, personal reflection time, nature connection & exploration, music and games.